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In news of the day – I have a fluffy rug! It’s big and black and very very fluffy – happiness… though now I think I want to move the sofa from where it is now… I’ve been quite busy with sessions the last few days which is a Very Good Thing – I’ve been…

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Back playing again!

happy dance… I’ve had three sessions in my new space – I’m so happy – I really really needed it 😉 lucky the first two sessions were both with masochists cause everyone knew that for the first couple my hand might be a teeny bit heavy. But lucky for me I have the best fun…

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Meme from everyone… 1. Do you think you can last in a relationship for 4 months? hehe – I’ve been in one for almost ten years 2. What color are your eyes? green 3. Who was the first person that you texted this morning? neophyte31 4. Do you have a best friend(s)? I have close…

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Nearly there!

The new space is now at release candidate stage… I will be taking sessions there from mid-next week! So excited… I really *need* to play – it’s been a long time. Oh – and in random meme news… In 2008, msservalan resolves to… Spend less time on erotica.Go to bdsm every Sunday.Stop climbing with gendertrash.Take…

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Happy New Year…

Lots going on with my new dungeon – lots has been achieved – but still lots to do… thanks to my fabulous team – now called by anyway – I’ll write a proper entry soon – but this entry by mordwen caught my eye – so I thought I’d post here as food for thought……

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an ideal Domme

Someone asked on Max Fisch about what “What qualities make the ideal mistress”? which prompted a huge rant from me… the key message of which is mistress_jadis rocks – giggles… Here’s what I said… I thought about this quite a bit when I was thinking about taking on an apprentice Mistress (happily very successfully with…

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Merry Christmas!

I hope Santa was good to everyone – I got a goat and a lamb… thanks to oxfam unwrapped which as many know is one of my favourite charities (along with the wilderness society) – I also got a share in a bridge in Cambodia to help isolated villages… so much better than a heap…

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Home again…

from my stealth trip to Melbourne for mordwen‘s wedding… congratulations! It was wet and cold which prompted a slight fashion faux-pas on my part as I had packed for summer (as you do on the solstice) so I had to run out and buy a cardigan to go over my pretty Akira silk dress. I…

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Smalltalk

Inspired by gendertrash who went to an afternoon tea and talked about cooking and craft (which is a change from going to conferences and talking about Very Serious Things) I’m not so great at talking about craft (or doing it) – but am happy to discuss wine or travel… or makeup! Made me curious –…

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