End of year musings…
Sluts and politics…
Well I’ve been having some great fun recently – I’d been thinking that I hadn’t had a chance to play with any slutty “girls” lately and then I get a couple of cross-dressing sessions in a row! So much fun… my first was so cute wearing corset, thigh-high boots (size 12!), blonde curly wig with a pretty blue bow and some red lipstick!
The second was more into humiliation with a fishnet body-stocking and size 14 stilettos! hehehe – I tried a smaller pair of shoes first, but decided he must be the ugly sister not cinderella!
However not all is so rosy – I had three bookings today but only one session… hmmmm – that’s why new people don’t get the exact address until they confirm, that way I don’t rush to get ready and sit around getting grumpy. I do understand that sometimes “real life” interferes but a simple text or call is appreciated. That said – I did get an apology from one person which makes a big difference.
There seems to be a lot of bad feeling floating around in the non-pro scene at the moment… honestly I think that sometimes people read too much into a few simple emails – or maybe I’m just being naive? I prefer to take things on face value however… actions speak louder than words – and much louder than inferences…
I personally know what it’s like to be a big-bad-top with a lot of attitude – we don’t always “play well with others” – hey that’s a percentage of why I’m independent… but after nearly 10 years in the lifestyle scene and more than four as a professional Mistress I’ve learned to be “Switzerland” – just without the banks! ie: never ever take sides…
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Politics
Hey Mistress Servalan,
i’m with You were it comes to politics (and gossip), i don’t get involved.
Hey, i wore red lipstick on Saturday night 🙂 It was specially picked out for me and soooooooooooo red!!! Can’t wait until i get the pics to show You 🙂
cheers
mira{NS}
mmm thigh-high boots. Even that warms my cockles. 😉
Anyone who brings up politics in a kinky setting should have a ball gag stuffed in their mouth and be caned! *wink*
Yup – I’ve been lurking and watching… [sigh] Politics… ain’t it grand. [/sarcasm]
Especially if they’re het male Doms!
I just think that sometimes people take things the worst possible way, when they could easily stop and re-read something and try and see what the positive spin could be…
Hehehe
Re: Politics
It’s always a good idea to try and stay neutral if possible… especially in writing! I may have a beer at the pub and mention that I though so-and-so was acting odd or whatever, but I’d never ever put it in writing… those sorts of things just never go away – and people can read a lot more into the words than you wanted to put there!
How about 7″ strappy platforms, or something similar? 😛
Text. How subjectively emotional it is 🙂