I hope everyone has had a fun and safe Festive Season! I finished up my year of play with quite a number of “naughty boys” going over my knee for Domestic Discipline sessions… I always suspect that they’re trying to get back on the Nice List đ
This first week of 2018 has already been good fun with some new(to me) submissives starting out their year deciding not to let another year go by without expressing their hidden desires. I’m not a great believer in New Year’s resolutions as I believe that every day you’re alive is a chance to live fully… however if the diary changing over gives you a moment to reflect on what you really want to experience then I’m all for it!
Or take time to reflect on what the past year has given you…
My 2017 was definitely memorable… there was shopping, more play than you could imagine and a nice dose of travel – along with some interesting awards and interviews.
I didn’t attend DomConLA last year – however in my absence I was awarded entry into the BDSM Hall of Fame in recognition of my commitment to the International FemDom and wider BDSM community over the past 20 years.
Not attending DomCon didn’t mean that I stayed home – I was lucky enough to have a couple of weeks holidays in Spain which was just amazing! I’ve written about some of my favourite things here earlier but suffice it to say I’d be very happy to return… there is still so much to see and so much wine to drink đ At the end of October/ early November I took another few weeks to visit the United States and Mexico. Since lat time I visited New York my US Bestie Mistress Wynter has closed her dungeon and retired from Professional Domination so I wasn’t sure where I would be conducting sessions – lucky I have quite a few friends there so have a few different options. I spent some time in Mistress Ariana Chevalier’s beautiful Parthenon Studio and really enjoyed playing with one of my very favourite US subs a wonderful combination of masochist and foot fetishist! Caning followed by appreciative foot worship – what is not to love! It was so great to finally get to spend time with Mistress Ariana – surprisingly considering all the friends we have in common we hadn’t met before. Mexico was beaches, museums and mezcal – then back home via LA where I got to conduct sessions in Irene Boss’s fantastic OC playspace. I had visited it once before but Irene is even more of a gearhead than I am (though it helps that she has large dungeons in two different cities!) – so there were plenty of awesome new options for my sessions and to give me ideas for my own Sydney dungeon.
That happy sadist smile after administering a caning at NYC’s Parthenon Studios
A quick latex happysnap at Irene Boss’s beautiful Los Angeles dungeons…
As usual my followers on Twitter and Instagram have already seen lots of my photos… always worth a look if you’re interested in what I’ve been up to.
I’m a very private person when it comes to my play in many ways – I love writing about things here or on my Twitter – but I’ve always avoided any mainstream publicity… Over the years I’ve been approached a number of times but I’d rather keep my audience to people who have found me because they’re already looking to learn more about the world of FemDom rather than the curious general public. I was approached by Adult Matchmaker to be interviewed a few months ago because they were starting a series of features on leading women in different parts of the adult sector. I was happy to be a part because I knew that instead of a highly edited and sensationalised excerpt of my thoughts I’d be able to explain what being a ProDomme is all about.
Q. How would you explain to people unfamiliar with the BDSM scene what you do for a living?  There are two ways to answer this – the actions âI tie people up, hit them with sticks or put them in pretty dressesâ – and the emotions âI provide people with an opportunity to explore vulnerability, trust and fear in a safe and nonjudgemental space.â  Was one of the questions – but go and have a look if you’re interested www.adultmatchmaker.com.au/blog/397/a-day-in-the-life-of-a-pro-domme
Of course it wouldn’t be me without lots and lots of BDSM related shopping! Lots of additions to my ever-expanding Crossdressing wardrobe, new latex for slaves, glamorous new outfits for me including new Loubtoutins, new implements, new bondage gear… I’ve even discovered a new fetish of my own – shaving with a straight razor! OMG – it’s so erotic….
And I’ve found an outlet for all my years of naughty photos – Only Fans! For $9.99 a month people who want to see all the uncensored photos and a few little videos of my playtimes can sneak a peek inside the dungeon and find out exactly what’s been going on! A nice way too for all the people who’ve been enjoying my writing and photos over the years without a chance to see me in person to contribute and show their appreciation. https://onlyfans.com/msservalan Bits and pieces going up regularly – though it there’s anything in particular you’re interested in let me know!