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On safewords and consent

I've been thinking about writing up some of my ideas on safewords for a while – because there seem to be a variety of approaches to them. To me the absolute foundation to all play is consent – that is what makes me able to look in the mirror every morning and know that while…

Independence Day!

It's hard to believe that it has been 9 years since I left Salon Kitty's to set up my very own dungeon! It was a case of means + opportunity really – I wasn't looking to leave as I liked the Salon Kitty's environment and had some good friends there. Plus as you can imagine,…

Vote for me!

There's only a couple of days of voting left in the Eros Shine Awards – and this year I was nominated! I knew that my friends at MaXXX Black had won an award last year, but I didn't even realise that I had been nominated until a friend told me – how exciting! I'm also…

sleepy Domme is sleepy

I was planning to write a GearHead Weekly today but it will have to wait till tomorrow (or today actually as it's already late o'clock)…. but I thought I'd just write a regular old update with some of my thoughts and some of the fun things I've been up to lately. I generally tend to…