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Back a week already!

It’s hard to believe I’ve been home for a week already 🙂 I’m so lucky that I never really get jet lag… though a big part of that I think is that I’m able to make my own schedule. I’ve been having a lot of fun playing with some of my new toys in recent…

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Loving this song – and the clip from Godard’s “Vivre Sa Vie” – doesn’t the girl in it look like missfleurdelys who left for *her* travels this morning… I’m going to miss her – she’s not back till just after my birthday!

self harm, self play or self abuse…

and thoughts on what is okay and what is not okay… So there’s been an interesting discussion privately with someone on my f-list about why they feel perfectly comfortable with intense BDSM activities but not with activities considered self-harm such as cutting, as well as pro ana/mia communities online. Which has given me a lot…

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Home again…

Well I arrived back in Sydney yesterday at the rather ungodly hour of 6am! The flight wasn’t too bad, it was totally full (overbooked in fact), but I was seated in the window seat with a really nice yoga instructor next to me and another young lady next to her so we weren’t too squooshed…

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omg!

A bit of my Domina Files video that I did a few months ago is on youtube! Look at me raving on about domestic discipline and some of my favourite implements…

In New York!

I made it through my visit to The Compound! Irene Boss and I were *so* busy playing and filming – we had a fantastic time with lots of great submissives but I so needed a nap yesterday when I landed in New York! I think I was running on adrenaline and dominance by the end…

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traveller’s tales…

So I’m happily ensconced in a comfy chair at Irene Boss’s place… she’s such a fabulous hostess – hard to say if it’s for the delicious snacks I’m plied with or for lining up a heap of wonderful submissives with whom to play! The wedding I went to in Santa Cruz was very beautiful –…

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leaving!

So I’m in a bit of a flurry at the moment… still trying to decide what to pack! I have quite a few sessions booked as well as some personal playtimes, at least one event and I always have trouble deciding what to wear as it is! Trying not to drag along the kitchen sink…

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Grrr

So excite is being very difficult – sigh I’m expecting a proper solution in the nest few weeks…. But in the meantime – if you don’t get a timely reply from me on the mistress_servalan@excite.com email address…. please try again on ms.servalan@gmail.com – which is much more reliable! xxx